Build Rapport First

If you don’t build rapport with someone first, don’t expect them to be interested in your feedback. Unsolicited opinions will likely be experienced by others as your own unmet needs. If you have a need to be seen, valued, and revered – whether or not that need is conscious- any feedback coming from this place […]

Man unconsciously craves failure

Man unconsciously craves failure until we have worked out this craving.It’s hard to consciously admit that because our minds are geared toward thinking that success is good and failure is bad.Our unconscious psyche fears expansion, growth, change, and becoming stronger than our father. We become addicted to looking for problems and rationalizing why we should […]

It’s not that I’m not enough.

It’s not that I’m not enough. But I may have been unconsciously putting my actions and efforts in the wrong direction. It came from fear and delusion. So, I manufactured my own evidence that I was not enough. It has nothing to do with reality. It caused her to question my trustworthiness. It doesn’t mean […]

Deep Projections

I have recently come face to face with some deep projections that have been lurking inside of my system unconsciously.Anytime I write or share anything, it is with the assumption that there is stuff like this in my system still needing to be processed and realized.So, this doesn’t affect or discount any of my previous […]

Necessary mindset to “be your own shaman”

I want to articulate what I believe to be the necessary mindset to “be your own shaman”. Find a desire within you to come clean, to be truly in integrity, for its own sake. Not to get anywhere, to get some kind of reward, not to impress anyone. Simply to come clean for the sake […]

Neurodivergence is a Gift

Neurodivergence is a Gift ————————- When I share with someone about my autistic brain, it often comes with hesitancy because they hear me speak it as if it is a disability. Most people are just uneducated about the issue. I would not change – in fact I would pay money to remain as I am. […]

Spiritual Materialism

Spiritual Materialism ——————– The English language (and probably all Western languages) is object-oriented by nature. Simply by being native Western language speakers, we are wired to position spiritual concepts as objects. And so we compete and position ourselves regarding: Am I awakened? Is he awakened? Is she awakened? The issue is that we look at […]

My ongoing development

I only ever post my insights from that moment in my ongoing development of Seeing. I am humble toward the reality that everything I share is news to me. And there is always more articulation arriving tomorrow. I am never convinced I know everything, and yet I intend to allow myself to know everything I […]

Dealing with our own narcissism

Dealing with our own narcissism is how we end suffering. If we are not internally oriented this way, no amount of effort or hope is going to make any significant difference in the quality of our experience. Our own narcissism can appear in the typical overt ways, such as greed, bullying, and condescension, but it […]

Magic is a Process

Magic is a Process ——————- The human nervous system is a living, breathing organism. It is not an event, It is a continual process. Even when you are not aware of it. Whether you are doing nothing, eating, or sleeping, there is a process underway. The needs and state and other information bits are all […]