The exact same words can be coming from strength or from weakness. If you can’t FEEL where it’s coming from, you are not understanding what is being communicated. “I’m leaving” can be an act of revenge or an act of creation. “Not today” can be said in humor or from fear. “I love you” can […]

I am not looking for students. I am not trying to teach you when I write here: I am just sharing my poetry. I write what I See and what’s apparent to me in that moment. If you learn something, that’s just a positive side effect. Sometimes I “teach” someone on an individual basis. That […]

Needs are a portal into the true self. Experiencing needs is a very human thing. Under that need is an unprocessed emotion. The need is not met because the emotion is not met. Judging (and not expressing) the need keeps the perception of the need stuck in place. Simply because a need may be “coming […]

Relational damage causes one to believe “I am not allowed to have my needs met”. Because of this, we jump to conclusions regarding when others share their needs. It can be easy to misinterpret the sharing of needs as demands. As a result, our shadow response may be to make demands. When I am sharing […]

The masculine is for LOVING the feminine. If he doesn’t have the ability to love her properly, she will not feel loved and then yes of course she is in a depression (which is suppressed rage). Or she is just extremely angry. So either she needs to learn how to tell him No, or he […]

Our last men’s group meeting introduced the first concepts of magic. This is important, not just because we want to become skilled magicians, but because women innately understand magic better than men. This is my way of bringing men closer to reality. This is a path to becoming capable of properly Seeing a woman. Women […]

If He Truly LovesHer, he wants her to be capable and competent regardless of his interest in her. This doesn’t mean he wants her to be “independent”, but he wants her to be capable of being independent. A self-centered man wants to keep her disabled and dependent on him so he can feel important and […]