“I love you”

Honestly, most people are saying “I love you” because they want to hear it back. This is dishonest communication. This is called “Giving to get”, and is a form of manipulation. “Thank you” is not a bad response to “I love you”. It doesn’t mean the other person doesn’t love you, it means they feel […]

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Cat Magic

Last night I was teaching Cat Magic to my cat. I’ve learned (and of course am always learning) how magic works for humans, and last night I learned how to communicate with my cat in a way no one had ever communicated with him before. The transmission comes through physical touch, responsiveness and pressure, telepathic […]

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How to Receive a Woman’s Love

Dear Men.   A woman’s perspective, felt experience, and developmental process is considerably different than a man’s.   For a man, understanding a woman’s communication style and underlying agenda is often highly counterintuitive and thus is seems incredibly mysterious.   It is in fact incredibly simple. Men tend to make things much more complex than […]

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The Hidden Predator in Women and Men

The Hidden Predator in Women and Men ———————————————– Is this person a predator, is that person a predator? Am I a predator, are you a predator? Predation. The “ultimate topic” within transformation and shamanic integration of the true self. This issue cannot be avoided any longer, as it has increasingly revealed itself and become more […]

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Over the years of cleansing and purifying myself of stagnant emotions, I have discovered an enormous well of anger inside of my organs.   If I hadn’t discovered this and began clearing it all out, I honestly believe I would be extremely sick by now. My organs would be shutting down from the sheer weight […]


I want the Truth.

I want the Truth.   I don’t want you to hide your real feelings from me.   I don’t want you to protect me from myself.   I want only the Truth.   If it erodes my sense of self– that’s okay, it’s only temporary. Let’s do this.   I don’t want the cutesy version […]

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