Neurodivergence is a Gift

Neurodivergence is a Gift ————————- When I share with someone about my autistic brain, it often comes with hesitancy because they hear me speak it as if it is a disability. Most people are just uneducated about the issue. I would not change – in fact I would pay money to remain as I am. […]

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Spiritual Materialism

Spiritual Materialism ——————– The English language (and probably all Western languages) is object-oriented by nature. Simply by being native Western language speakers, we are wired to position spiritual concepts as objects. And so we compete and position ourselves regarding: Am I awakened? Is he awakened? Is she awakened? The issue is that we look at […]

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My ongoing development

I only ever post my insights from that moment in my ongoing development of Seeing. I am humble toward the reality that everything I share is news to me. And there is always more articulation arriving tomorrow. I am never convinced I know everything, and yet I intend to allow myself to know everything I […]

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Dealing with our own narcissism

Dealing with our own narcissism is how we end suffering. If we are not internally oriented this way, no amount of effort or hope is going to make any significant difference in the quality of our experience. Our own narcissism can appear in the typical overt ways, such as greed, bullying, and condescension, but it […]

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Magic is a Process

Magic is a Process ——————- The human nervous system is a living, breathing organism. It is not an event, It is a continual process. Even when you are not aware of it. Whether you are doing nothing, eating, or sleeping, there is a process underway. The needs and state and other information bits are all […]

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The exact same words

The exact same words can be coming from strength or from weakness. If you can’t FEEL where it’s coming from, you are not understanding what is being communicated. “I’m leaving” can be an act of revenge or an act of creation. “Not today” can be said in humor or from fear. “I love you” can […]

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I am not looking for students

I am not looking for students. I am not trying to teach you when I write here: I am just sharing my poetry. I write what I See and what’s apparent to me in that moment. If you learn something, that’s just a positive side effect. Sometimes I “teach” someone on an individual basis. That […]

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Relational damage

Relational damage causes one to believe “I am not allowed to have my needs met”. Because of this, we jump to conclusions regarding when others share their needs. It can be easy to misinterpret the sharing of needs as demands. As a result, our shadow response may be to make demands. When I am sharing […]

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