I have “arrived” somewhere

The temptations we have to think we know something and have “arrived” somewhere are incredible. Our ego wants certainty and will absolutely be sure that “I have no more blind spots” and “I’m done” and “I got somewhere”. These false conclusions, or “Landings” get us in the biggest trouble. Often someone will attack me, assuming […]

An over-valuation of experiences

Men tend to have an over-valuation of experiences. For a woman to be able to genuinely trust them, this needs to be addressed. Our inner child craves experiences. Our inner child wants to “feel good” and to be comfortable. Our inner child is totally focused on what we like and don’t like. Our inner child […]

Trying to “Crack the code”

Relationships are the most sensitive, intimate, important, and frequently the most difficult aspect of human lives. People have been trying to “Crack the code” on this issue for a very long time. As of now, I can see 3 different realms of solutions people have come up with. One solution is for both partners to […]

It’s much easier to be feminine

As men, for a lot of us, it’s much easier to be feminine. We cannot access our full range of motion, mind, love, and genius. It’s less brutal. It’s more comfortable. And then we can become convinced it’s the better way to be, so we can implore other people to be that way. No one […]

Test me up, down, and sideways

When I start connecting with a new friend, more often than not, they need to test me up, down, sideways, and every other way to see if they can break my focus. And to see if they can get me to snap so that they can protect themselves from investing in an unhealthy relationship. It’s […]

Invoking Conscience

Invoking Conscience ——————— Conscience is one of the most powerful faculties to leverage in the consciousness evolution process. This is our innate knowing – which can be perceived as a healthy sense of guilt or healthy boundaries on what we are willing to do and say. Staying in the middle way is like bumper bowling, […]

Channel Blockages

If you are an anger repressor, you are psychologically oriented to be in positions that make you angry until you become willing to recognize that you NEED to be angry in order to move forward in mastering your fire channel. This is the way to alchemize the child archetype that keeps you from becoming the […]

Genuine spirituality

I wrote this as a comment but it was mysteriously deleted from FB: Yeshua was a spiritually awakened master magician. Not everyone wants to learn how to do what he did or the type of relationship he had. The male ego can be a very useful tool to sculpt as long as one is identified […]

Our emotional expression

The health of our emotional expression depends on the nature of the repression programming of that individual. For some people, crying is beneficial and for some it is an escape. For some people, getting angry is beneficial and for some it is an escape. For an anger repressor, they are much are likely to get […]

Non-awakened polarity coaching

Non-awakened polarity coaching is giving you methods and techniques to mimic adult behavior. Authentically awakened reality is much more based on a mutuality of responsibility. Non-awakened polarity coaching is inadvertently promoting co-dependency. The idea is: “The more pleasure you feel, the better your relationship is”. This is simply not true. One can feel pleasure all […]