If He Truly Loves Her

If He Truly LovesHer, he wants her to be capable and competent regardless of his interest in her. This doesn’t mean he wants her to be “independent”, but he wants her to be capable of being independent. A self-centered man wants to keep her disabled and dependent on him so he can feel important and […]

Sentimentality/Clarity/Spirituality/Power

Sentimentality is an enormous blockage on the path. Clarity/Sobriety is an enormous blockage on the path. Spirituality is an enormous blockage on the path. Power is an enormous blockage on the path. Obviously, these things are not obvious. It takes immense Seeing and trials and failures for these to become obvious. Most “spirituality” consists of […]

My integrity is constantly being questioned

My integrity is constantly being questioned. I am constantly under energetic attack from multiple angles. It is never-ending. From friends, family, strangers, and beyond. This is the price a living warrior must pay for standing in their authority. This is the cost of remaining free while remaining connected to community. And I welcome the challenge. […]

Weak men prefer weak women

Weak men prefer weak women. They say things like “I’m not satisfied with her history”. “I want a woman who is soft and feminine.” Weak men prefer women with no fight in them, who are soft and cuddly all the time. And they’ll self-identify as “masculine men” when in the same breath they are “repulsed” […]

What a woman offers. God

The vulnerability a woman provides fuels a man spiritually like nothing else can. Only a man who values this golden spiritual substance is going to be capable of truly valuing what a woman offers. God. If he can’t see the benefit, he’s going to feel entitled to her efforts. Ironically, when you stop needing her […]

True Art

True Art ————— I’m going to give you my opinion about what the difference is between True Art and false art. I know not everybody is going to agree with me, because who am I to decide what art is? But I do have an opinion, and you’re free to ignore it. I’m going to […]

A light that never runs out

As long as I maintain that my shadows are BAD, or a threat to me to be experienced in some way, I am beholden to them. It is a self-sabotaging shadow that says “I should be ashamed of my shadows”. If I deny their existence and try to sculpt my image to be perfect, I […]

He genuinely cares

A man has to get to the point where he genuinely cares more about her wellbeing than he cares about being seen and respected. Until then, she is dealing with an immense liability and it’s safer and more in integrity for her to be on her own.

Vanity Masculinity

Vanity Masculinity——————99%+ of all masculinity we see is not genuine masculine, but vanity masculinity.People say “A man should provide”, “A man should be solid and tough”, and “A man should have his woman/kids under control”.And so men literally perform, just an an actor performs, to appear tough, to appear certain, and to appear like he […]

How do you know you’re correct?

In the worldy roles I play, in which I frequently mentor people and determine some degree of “truth” to assist others in their spiritual and psychological evolution – a big responsibility is placed on me. It’s usually some version of “How do you know you’re correct, and not just falling for some kind of fantasy […]