Willing to be ordinary

I’ve found that being willing to be ordinary actually enables me to do extraordinary things. My resistance to ordinariness and my desire to be special has only been a hindrance. I have so much more capacity when I’m okay with the simplest version of myself as I am. This makes magic possible. If it’s not […]

Codependency is diabolically

Codependency is diabolically invisible in most interactions. We are codependent with our pain. We are codependent with astrology. We are codependent with food. We are codependent with our thoughts. We are codependent with our hopes and dreams. We are codependent with unborn children. We are codependent with the elements. We are codependent with money and […]

I have long expected perfection in myself

I have long expected perfection in myself.In doing so I trained others to expect perfection of me and to be disappointed when I was not performing perfectly.I apologize to everyone whom I conveyed I might be perfect.I need to explain that I do not need to be perfect anymore. To be friends with me one […]

Not beholden to the whims

A man who is devoted to his woman, and to Woman with a capital W, is not beholden to the whims and wants of every single individual woman. He can be fully devoted to his woman and to the divine HER, and he can still have no interest in communicating with various others who may […]

It is so easy to overcomplicate things

It is so easy to overcomplicate things. It’s a method of sabotage. What needs to happen is actually so simple. There is really only ever one real choice that can be made, no matter how much deliberation has to be done. The over-rationalized deliberation of every single decision comes from FEAR. FEAR is in the […]

This is HARD to talk about

Regarding content on Self-realization work and content involving awakening to the true self. This is HARD to talk about. Because just about anything said on the subject can be disproven from a different angle. That doesn’t mean it’s wrong, but words have limited definitions. Especially in Western languages. Western words are generally based in duality […]

I need to always feel productive

If I have a business and I need to always feel productive, it’s likely because I then won’t have to shame myself. If I meet my goals and impress people, I won’t have to punish myself or feel bad. If I am addicted to punishing myself, and I’m not quite willing to give up that […]

Your hope is human

Your hope is human Your knowing is not human Your perception is human You awareness is not human Your fear is human Your “willpower” is human Your attention is not human Your True Will is not human

What is enlightenment?

What is enlightenment? Enlightenment does not mean “a perfect human”. That is a complete misnomer. Incorrect usage of this word is rampant. The word is also not meaningless. Classical enlightenment/awakening/samhaddi is referring only to the consciousness and not to the human. A human cannot be enlightened. Complete enlightenment is when consciousness is liberated into the […]

Better I let them come to me

If someone is struggling, better I let them come to me when they’re ready. If I see someone’s delusions, I don’t want to say too much about it without being asked. It’s not my business. Even if I want to help. What is my business is when I have a trusting relationship and there is […]