Non-awakened polarity coaching is giving you methods and techniques to mimic adult behavior.
Authentically awakened reality is much more based on a mutuality of responsibility.
Non-awakened polarity coaching is inadvertently promoting co-dependency. The idea is: “The more pleasure you feel, the better your relationship is”.
This is simply not true. One can feel pleasure all day and discover that their pleasure-seeking is coming from unprocessed trauma.
If you find yourself constantly seeking pleasure, stimulation, success, rewards, and a partner who is playing the role of dominant or submissive – this is how you know you are operating from trauma.
Everything we need is meant to be cultivated in ourselves first and foremost, and then the external world gives us what we want – once we already have it.