I wrote this as a comment but it was mysteriously deleted from FB:
Yeshua was a spiritually awakened master magician.
Not everyone wants to learn how to do what he did or the type of relationship he had.
The male ego can be a very useful tool to sculpt as long as one is identified with it.
For most people, a polarized relationship is good enough. It’s not as deep as one can go, but it is better than the majority of what’s out there. I totally agree with you about the cliche spiritual garbage.
Genuine spirituality is certainly not condoning the unconscious feminization of men. Nothing is more masculine than consciousness, it is pure masculine energy.
It is a viscous fluid which animates us. If we connect to this, we become not only pure masculine but also deeply tuned in emotionally.
A woman can trust a man like this of her own accord, without any coaching or convincing or trying. A man like this does not need to try be dominant, and yet his influence occurs naturally. A woman will feel safe with him, even though he does not need her to feel safe with him.
He is free because he has processed his emotional wounding and disidentified from his ego. He gets the best of both worlds and additionally, he is able to channel his genius into his work with miracles happening regularly.
It’s not for everyone because it takes deep work which is incredibly vulnerable. Usually, only the men who feel the most broken and shattered and traumatized are motivated and capable of doing this work.
It’s important is to acknowledge the existence of this deeper work should it be needed, rather than simply “man up” – there are alternatives.