Accusing the other of projecting…
How many times has that worked out successfully for you?
I’m betting that the answer..rhymes with Zero 
Accusing the other of projecting is a common defensive response. Accusing the other of misunderstanding you…completely disregard their experience.
And then of course, you gather and provide proof they are projecting. Why do you want to convince them in the first place?
Hmm….
I think it’s for one reason and one reason only.
So you don’t have to change.
If the energy you feel is “too intense”, you want someone else to feel it for you. I’m a human too, I know how the game works.
Let them gift you with their experience.
It doesn’t need to be correct to benefit you.
There are higher games to play.
I hope this is useful.
