MIMICKING LIFE IS NOT LIFE —————————— If a man hasn’t proven himself thoroughly, what he thinks is her “submission” is a trauma response. Looking for a submissive woman means looking for a woman who is in a state of fawn and freeze. Anger and hurt repressors are very attractive to men who don’t want to […]

If I’m angry, but I want to protect the other person from my anger, I don’t trust them to be able to breath and have an experience (or not), so I hold back my anger. Codependency is managing the emotions of the other person because you don’t trust them to survive the experience of their […]

The subconscious desire to make your partner (or friend) into your enemy is the cause of many projections and imaginations. If they are allowed to be their messy human selves, without it being a threat to you, they are going to find harmony with you faster. Name your needs and boundaries. Make them as non-critiquing […]

We are codependent with the parasites attached to our consciousness. We give authority to these beings by condemning anyone who questions them or confronts our behaviors that bring any attention to them whatsoever. These parasites may be purely etheric, or physical worms internally, or collective intent of millions of microscopic pathogens. We must learn to […]

Codependency is diabolically invisible in most interactions. We are codependent with our pain. We are codependent with astrology. We are codependent with food. We are codependent with our thoughts. We are codependent with our hopes and dreams. We are codependent with unborn children. We are codependent with the elements. We are codependent with money and […]

If someone is struggling, better I let them come to me when they’re ready. If I see someone’s delusions, I don’t want to say too much about it without being asked. It’s not my business. Even if I want to help. What is my business is when I have a trusting relationship and there is […]

The sleeping man can not STAND the friction of an awakened woman who refuses to surrender to him before he is qualified. She knows she is better off alone! Validating this process is hugely important because it is painful, but that doesn’t mean it is wrong. All of our entitlement is being burned away. Then […]

Men and women are attracted to each other for different reasons. The way a man grows in a healthy committed relationship is different than the way a woman grows. The man grows into the woman, while the woman grows into herself. She is the foundation of reality. She is the earth and the ground of […]

The kinds of friends available to us depend on how much of a friend we can be to ourselves. We can only be a friend to ourselves if we are capable and willing to take accountability for our blindspots. The quality of our friendship can go way up if we are a self-accountable person. If […]