The exact same words

The exact same words can be coming from strength or from weakness. If you can’t FEEL where it’s coming from, you are not understanding what is being communicated. “I’m leaving” can be an act of revenge or an act of creation. “Not today” can be said in humor or from fear. “I love you” can […]

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I am not looking for students

I am not looking for students. I am not trying to teach you when I write here: I am just sharing my poetry. I write what I See and what’s apparent to me in that moment. If you learn something, that’s just a positive side effect. Sometimes I “teach” someone on an individual basis. That […]

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Relational damage

Relational damage causes one to believe “I am not allowed to have my needs met”. Because of this, we jump to conclusions regarding when others share their needs. It can be easy to misinterpret the sharing of needs as demands. As a result, our shadow response may be to make demands. When I am sharing […]

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Women innately understand magic

Our last men’s group meeting introduced the first concepts of magic. This is important, not just because we want to become skilled magicians, but because women innately understand magic better than men. This is my way of bringing men closer to reality. This is a path to becoming capable of properly Seeing a woman. Women […]

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If He Truly Loves Her

If He Truly LovesHer, he wants her to be capable and competent regardless of his interest in her. This doesn’t mean he wants her to be “independent”, but he wants her to be capable of being independent. A self-centered man wants to keep her disabled and dependent on him so he can feel important and […]

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Weak men prefer weak women

Weak men prefer weak women. They say things like “I’m not satisfied with her history”. “I want a woman who is soft and feminine.” Weak men prefer women with no fight in them, who are soft and cuddly all the time. And they’ll self-identify as “masculine men” when in the same breath they are “repulsed” […]

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What a woman offers. God

The vulnerability a woman provides fuels a man spiritually like nothing else can. Only a man who values this golden spiritual substance is going to be capable of truly valuing what a woman offers. God. If he can’t see the benefit, he’s going to feel entitled to her efforts. Ironically, when you stop needing her […]

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He genuinely cares

A man has to get to the point where he genuinely cares more about her wellbeing than he cares about being seen and respected. Until then, she is dealing with an immense liability and it’s safer and more in integrity for her to be on her own.

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