A man who is devoted to his woman, and to Woman with a capital W, is not beholden to the whims and wants of every single individual woman.
He can be fully devoted to his woman and to the divine HER, and he can still have no interest in communicating with various others who may be vying for his attention.
They may try to manipulate or guilt trip him into thinking he is misbehaving by not doing what they want.
A man or a woman in their true essence is not a predator, but the opposite.
A man or a woman who is attached to an outcome is a predator.
Of course there is compassion for their struggle and desperation, as they are scrounging for the sustenance they long to receive (yet loath to create for themselves).
But alas, he is not responsible to serve the world – he is responsible for his woman and children.
An initiated man does not give into the pushiness and mind games and tactics of predators. For he has his own predatory nature checked and intact and ready to protect his family as needed.
He will not be bullied by sentiments of how a good person should behave. When and whom he chooses to serve fits into his values and conscious decisions.