Digging up our repression

Addressing our emotional suppression is useful, but not nearly as useful as digging up our repression. By definition, suppression is conscious and repression is unconscious. Digging up our repression shows us how we have been living a life totally secret from ourselves and likely blaming everyone else for our self-sabotage. Addressing unconscious issues means it […]

Sanity is a negative substance

Sanity is a negative substance. Meaning, it doesn’t appear by adding things but by removing things. Those “things” are subconscious programs, repressed emotions, sticky perceptions, and physical barriers which feel like pins and needles. Sanity is what is left in its great simplicity. The most dangerous thing is assuming a perception of sanity without doing […]

Are my needs a punishment?

If you take my having needs as a punishment, you are probably punishing yourself for having needs. Because you think are protecting other people from feeling punished, because you are used to your needs being taken as an attack. A useful mantra is also the name of an old famous book: I’m okay, you’re okay.

Portal of Creation Coming Sooon

People don’t like to be bothered when they are trying to sleep. It doesn’t mean you should be quiet. It’s not your problem. Keep expressing yourself. Just be careful that your self-expression is not also keeping you asleep! How would you know? You probably wouldn’t, but there are clues you can watch out for. Are […]

Devotion is not about getting

Devotion is not about getting needs met. It is not about getting. If I depend on someone to meet my needs, I am trying to strip them of their right to make individual choices. You are not in debt to me just because we are in a relationship. You are not being threatened with abandonment […]

Why do polarity teachings exist?

Why do polarity teachings exist (as they are typically shared)? Because people are experiencing lack and want to experience abundance. Why are they fearing lack? Because they have been programmed to do so. They have triggers around lack, and so abundance appears to be the answer to “fix” it. And so men are trained to […]

If you want something to be true

If you want something to be true, you have the power to make it appear true in your mind. All red flags are drained of their color when we are in a zombie state of perception, fueled by dopamine and hope. If we make a decision for what’s not actually true, life will create innumerable […]

The skill of not being an abuser

::The skill of not being an abuser:: From the narcissistic age of development, we retain some degree of narcissism in ourselves. This is difficult to dissolve. Because of this, we maintain some degree of abusive tendency through which we are mean and incomplete in our ability to honor the experience and sovereignty of other people. […]

“NO!”

A woman’s ability to say, imply, and to act on her “NO!” is her greatest resource. Minimal explanation needed. Explaining herself will often diffuse her No and invite questioning. For many women, saying No is also their greatest FEAR. The man is afraid of how he feels hearing No, and so she is also afraid […]

The safety of her heart

The safety of her heart, treasured from the start, opens a portal, a chasm, through which reality comes apart. No more “he said, she said”. It’s not about events. Focus comes off of behavior, and moves toward what’s heaven sent. An abundance of kiss, rays of coherence. It’s not just that she longs for love, […]