Not beholden to the whims

A man who is devoted to his woman, and to Woman with a capital W, is not beholden to the whims and wants of every single individual woman. He can be fully devoted to his woman and to the divine HER, and he can still have no interest in communicating with various others who may […]

It is so easy to overcomplicate things

It is so easy to overcomplicate things. It’s a method of sabotage. What needs to happen is actually so simple. There is really only ever one real choice that can be made, no matter how much deliberation has to be done. The over-rationalized deliberation of every single decision comes from FEAR. FEAR is in the […]

This is HARD to talk about

Regarding content on Self-realization work and content involving awakening to the true self. This is HARD to talk about. Because just about anything said on the subject can be disproven from a different angle. That doesn’t mean it’s wrong, but words have limited definitions. Especially in Western languages. Western words are generally based in duality […]

I need to always feel productive

If I have a business and I need to always feel productive, it’s likely because I then won’t have to shame myself. If I meet my goals and impress people, I won’t have to punish myself or feel bad. If I am addicted to punishing myself, and I’m not quite willing to give up that […]

Your hope is human

Your hope is human Your knowing is not human Your perception is human You awareness is not human Your fear is human Your “willpower” is human Your attention is not human Your True Will is not human

What is enlightenment?

What is enlightenment? Enlightenment does not mean “a perfect human”. That is a complete misnomer. Incorrect usage of this word is rampant. The word is also not meaningless. Classical enlightenment/awakening/samhaddi is referring only to the consciousness and not to the human. A human cannot be enlightened. Complete enlightenment is when consciousness is liberated into the […]

Better I let them come to me

If someone is struggling, better I let them come to me when they’re ready. If I see someone’s delusions, I don’t want to say too much about it without being asked. It’s not my business. Even if I want to help. What is my business is when I have a trusting relationship and there is […]

The friction of an awakened woman

The sleeping man can not STAND the friction of an awakened woman who refuses to surrender to him before he is qualified. She knows she is better off alone! Validating this process is hugely important because it is painful, but that doesn’t mean it is wrong. All of our entitlement is being burned away. Then […]

Men and women are attracted to each other for different reasons

Men and women are attracted to each other for different reasons. The way a man grows in a healthy committed relationship is different than the way a woman grows. The man grows into the woman, while the woman grows into herself. She is the foundation of reality. She is the earth and the ground of […]

Fear of connection

Our human bodies have this incredible fear of connection at the same time as we have this incredible desire for connection. Connection, in this case, is not just referring to human-to-human contact, but specifically to the connection of neural pathways. We are terrified to know ourselves. We are terrified to know how our self-sabotage works. […]