Codependency is managing the emotions of the other person

If I’m angry, but I want to protect the other person from my anger, I don’t trust them to be able to breath and have an experience (or not), so I hold back my anger. Codependency is managing the emotions of the other person because you don’t trust them to survive the experience of their […]

The subconscious desire to make your partner into your enemy

The subconscious desire to make your partner (or friend) into your enemy is the cause of many projections and imaginations. If they are allowed to be their messy human selves, without it being a threat to you, they are going to find harmony with you faster. Name your needs and boundaries. Make them as non-critiquing […]

There is an optimal way

There is an optimal way to read. And an optimal way to listen. And an optimal way to watch movies. And an optimal way to process your day. And an optimal way to perceive your identity. Usually, people are listening and reading and understanding through their rational minds. This tendency seems logical but is actually […]

POST-REPRESSION FRIENDSHIPS

POST-REPRESSION FRIENDSHIPS _____________________________ I started working toward coming out of repression over 10 years ago. I made a lot of progress on my own, though it wasn’t until this year that I was able to actually give it a name and call it repression, and to be mentored on seeing the process through to completion. […]

The worship of rationality

The human being is capable of incredible feats, which by most modern standards is considered impossible.There is a reason for the 98% “junk” DNA in the human genome. The human being is a deeply capable and powerful creature with natural abilities far removed from mainstream awareness.I personally discovered some of the latent abilities in this […]

Fluid perception is the most grounding experience possible

Fluid perception is the most grounding experience possible.If one is authentic with themselves, their perception will move exactly where it will be most beneficial and relevant.But a sacrifice needs to be made for this to be possible. It is a big leap which feels very vulnerabile.An emotional breakdown occurs when someone is unwilling (due to […]

Grounding is the key

Everyone has different elemental makeups and balances of energies (for a variety of reasons). This is what makes us all different.Some of us naturally require more of a focus on grounding than others.Those with brilliant minds and exquisite creative gifts can often more easily get lost in the clouds (thoughts and emotions).For someone like this […]

There is no reason to make your work harder than necessary

There is no reason to make your work harder than necessary. Let’s not equate life-changing to making our work difficult on purpose. Edgy doesn’t mean difficult. Difficult means complex and labor intensive. Edgy means foreign and possibly shame inducing. Life comes up with plenty of edgy material for us to embrace. Yes, we need to […]

It does not dissolve in water!

I bought a cleanse supplement which is incredibly powerful and useful. The best I’ve ever found. It’s power is in its stickiness. It sticks to pathogens and heavy metals and flushes them out of the system. On Amazon, the reviews from people went on and on giving it lower ratings because it does not dissolve […]

If you tell yourself you’re free

If you tell yourself you’re free, but you’re not free, you’re lying. If you take actions as if you’re free to show people how free you are, you’re lying twice (This is called rebelliousness). If you tell yourself you want to be free, and you’re not taking the time to examine the chains that bind […]