She can’t fully respect him unless he can respect the mystery of her being.
She is closer to reality, even if she doesn’t believe it.
She may need his help to position herself properly, relationally.
This doesn’t mean he is above her, it means he’s honest and humble.
His visible leadership is not a dictatorship, it is in service to the invisible leadership she brings through her essence.
Teamwork between the two means correctly understanding the support they can provide each other.
A healthy and proper friendship does away with the necessity for maintaining appearances.
A relationship based on appearances around polarity or otherwise creates an atmosphere which is lacking true intimacy.
His devotion and service, tending to her, is his honest joy.
Her consistent security, being wrapped in love from head to toe, is integrated into his being without question.
Her security is how he can properly measure his own security. She is the voice he needs to hear, to listen closely.
He is moved by her blossoming, as he knows is not entitled to witnessing it.
Her love is not his right, though it is a natural wellspring of the garden he plants if planted properly.