Healing ourselves to get love

Healing ourselves in order to get love has an expiration date. In my “healing journey”, I have had to recognize that the reason I thought of it as a journey (identified with the nervous system) was because I was aiming toward a reward and a specific outcome, which is that at one point I will […]

Habitual protections

I’ve noticed an interesting pattern: certain people—sometimes women, sometimes men—are in a habitual protection of the masculine. And certain others—also sometimes women and sometimes men—are in a habitual protection of the feminine. Both sides often claim that honoring their preferred polarity is how we end the gender war. This speaks to the traumas, realizations, and […]

I am the foundation of all my decisions

I am the foundation of all my decisions. I am the center of my movement. I am the Deleter of all programs. I am the owner of what is rightfully mine. I am the restorer of what is right in the universe. I am the creator of relational well-being. I am the destroyer of that […]

Build Rapport First

If you don’t build rapport with someone first, don’t expect them to be interested in your feedback. Unsolicited opinions will likely be experienced by others as your own unmet needs. If you have a need to be seen, valued, and revered – whether or not that need is conscious- any feedback coming from this place […]

Man unconsciously craves failure

Man unconsciously craves failure until we have worked out this craving.It’s hard to consciously admit that because our minds are geared toward thinking that success is good and failure is bad.Our unconscious psyche fears expansion, growth, change, and becoming stronger than our father. We become addicted to looking for problems and rationalizing why we should […]

It’s not that I’m not enough.

It’s not that I’m not enough. But I may have been unconsciously putting my actions and efforts in the wrong direction. It came from fear and delusion. So, I manufactured my own evidence that I was not enough. It has nothing to do with reality. It caused her to question my trustworthiness. It doesn’t mean […]

Deep Projections

I have recently come face to face with some deep projections that have been lurking inside of my system unconsciously.Anytime I write or share anything, it is with the assumption that there is stuff like this in my system still needing to be processed and realized.So, this doesn’t affect or discount any of my previous […]

Necessary mindset to “be your own shaman”

I want to articulate what I believe to be the necessary mindset to “be your own shaman”. Find a desire within you to come clean, to be truly in integrity, for its own sake. Not to get anywhere, to get some kind of reward, not to impress anyone. Simply to come clean for the sake […]

Neurodivergence is a Gift

Neurodivergence is a Gift ————————- When I share with someone about my autistic brain, it often comes with hesitancy because they hear me speak it as if it is a disability. Most people are just uneducated about the issue. I would not change – in fact I would pay money to remain as I am. […]

Spiritual Materialism

Spiritual Materialism ——————– The English language (and probably all Western languages) is object-oriented by nature. Simply by being native Western language speakers, we are wired to position spiritual concepts as objects. And so we compete and position ourselves regarding: Am I awakened? Is he awakened? Is she awakened? The issue is that we look at […]