Relational damage causes one to believe “I am not allowed to have my needs met”. Because of this, we jump to conclusions regarding when others share their needs. It can be easy to misinterpret the sharing of needs as demands. As a result, our shadow response may be to make demands. When I am sharing […]

The masculine is for LOVING the feminine. If he doesn’t have the ability to love her properly, she will not feel loved and then yes of course she is in a depression (which is suppressed rage). Or she is just extremely angry. So either she needs to learn how to tell him No, or he […]

Our last men’s group meeting introduced the first concepts of magic. This is important, not just because we want to become skilled magicians, but because women innately understand magic better than men. This is my way of bringing men closer to reality. This is a path to becoming capable of properly Seeing a woman. Women […]

If He Truly LovesHer, he wants her to be capable and competent regardless of his interest in her. This doesn’t mean he wants her to be “independent”, but he wants her to be capable of being independent. A self-centered man wants to keep her disabled and dependent on him so he can feel important and […]

Weak men prefer weak women. They say things like “I’m not satisfied with her history”. “I want a woman who is soft and feminine.” Weak men prefer women with no fight in them, who are soft and cuddly all the time. And they’ll self-identify as “masculine men” when in the same breath they are “repulsed” […]

The vulnerability a woman provides fuels a man spiritually like nothing else can. Only a man who values this golden spiritual substance is going to be capable of truly valuing what a woman offers. God. If he can’t see the benefit, he’s going to feel entitled to her efforts. Ironically, when you stop needing her […]