I want the Truth.

I want the Truth. I don’t want you to hide your real feelings from me. I don’t want you to protect me from myself. I want only the Truth. If it erodes my sense of self– that’s okay, it’s only temporary. Let’s do this. I don’t want the cutesy version […]

What if I really let her existence move me?

What if I really let her existence move me? What would happen if I stopped cramming life into convenient and neatly packaged little concepts as if my holy experiences can simply be tagged and filed into the appropriate compartment? What if I risked having my breath taken away, in awe, even through waves of discomfort? […]

Overstuffed

I’ve soaked it all up like a sponge. Sopping wet, overloaded with fertility. I am more saturated than there are words to describe. There’s just so much weight to carry, and it’s not all mine. And so it’s a bit too obvious, it’s time to wring me out. Each pregnant pore is ready to gush […]

MALE DOMINANCE IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO INERTIA

The reason why men are drawn to try to dominate women is that they do not know how to be with (aka lovingly dominate) themselves. Oftentimes, the man faces the problem of inertia. Inert = stationary and unmoving. Lack of energy. It is often easier for a man to be energized as a reaction toward […]

THE BACKWARD MASCULINE

THE BACKWARD MASCULINE ?????????‍♂️??‍❤️‍?‍? Dear [Straight] Men, This message is for you. We have long been taught that women like masculine men. We have been taught that women want ‘polarity’, that this is sexy and will turn them on. This may be true, but there is a deeper truth available to you. The reality is, changing […]

I am not here to make her feel pretty

I am not here to make her feel pretty. If her confidence rests on my approval, we are co-dependently relating. I am not here to reassure. I am not here to walk her through the fire. I am not the daddy, or the teacher. This dynamic is how I used to hide and pretend. This […]