If you want something to be true, you have the power to make it appear true in your mind.
All red flags are drained of their color when we are in a zombie state of perception, fueled by dopamine and hope.
If we make a decision for what’s not actually true, life will create innumerable pressures and pain in order to get us to wake up to what is actually true.
Often, then, we must choose between Patience or Extensive Pain.
Patience may feel itchy and inconvenient, but the Pain of making the type of choice described here can suck years out of our precious life.