It’s been very confusing on this planet to differentiate between Real Love and False Love.
Real Love is not easy.
If we want it to be easy, we want False Love.
Real Love says NO.
If we want a YES, we want False Love.
Real Love says NO.
If we are trying to overcome shame and get to love, from this perspective we are searching for False Love.
Shame is the NO wanting to be owned.
Real Love does not need to be contained or managed.
We tend to slap a label on it called “Marriage” and then let our expectations handle the rest.
NO.
Marriage has been deeply misused. In our modern times, marriage is generally used to try to escape Real Love.
Marriage should be the LAST event, AFTER False Love is burned away.
Real Marriage can be a symbol of the RESULT of a journey to freedom from False Love.
Marriage is NOT meant to CONTAIN love.
Real Love says NO.
NO, I will not rely on the Marriage ritual to act as the NO for me.
False Love is contained through False Marriage.
Real Marriage is very different than False Marriage.
Real Marriage is a natural event of Real Love having sufficiently said NO.
Real Marriage is not USED at ALL.
Only False Love needs to be contained, and False Marriage is USED to contain it.
Real Marriage is an option after Real Love burns away False Love.
If one partner says No (to anything in their own field which they have a right to say No), the other partner is being offered their power back.
NO is a gift. NO is a blessing. NO is how holy progress occurs.
An ignorant society depends on “yes” for progress.
A wise society depends on NO.
The Dark wisdom of NO is terrifying to the rational mind.
The rational addiction to YES is exactly what has been overriding the NO for eons.
The rational mind thinks that the Absence of Yes is the Absence of Love.
Correcting this misunderstanding is The Great Reversal of Energy.
Real Love is not for the rational mind.
Our Evolution means stretching the capabilities of our DNA.
New neural pathways are being invented for the first time in human history.
Does that sound comfortable?
NO!
-Joshua
Lead Storyweaver
Joshua Edjida is a multidimensional artist, experience designer, author, public speaker/comedian, and transformational leadership facilitator. Originally from California, he currently lives in Colorado, and also enjoys traveling in Thailand, Bali, or in Europe.
