The sleeping man can not STAND the friction of an awakened woman who refuses to surrender to him before he is qualified.
She knows she is better off alone!
Validating this process is hugely important because it is painful, but that doesn’t mean it is wrong. All of our entitlement is being burned away.
Then all that’s left is…reality.
Then, when he’s not trying to get anything from her, she’s available. Her body knows the right timing.
She must not disrespect that most sacred knowing.
She is birthing herself and him through this process.
And men are arrogant enough to try to argue with her about her behavior. Pure stupidity.
SHE is the Portal of Creation.