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The key difference is not actually the submission component, but how it is misused and misrepresented. What is described there is not actually submission, it is giving up and giving away one’s power.
True submission is how she leads him spiritually. It is never bartered or exchanged, he must only recieve this reflection when in the effortless effort showing up as the divine masculine. He must build consistency in this through highs and lows.
Her submission is never a reward and she is not a prize. Distortions abound. Her submission is only for her, when she is truly safe to do so. When she is loved properly and without any expectation of provision whatsoever, subtle or otherwise.
She holds the power by choosing who is trustworthy, and when. This refines his potency and forces him into self-control and out of attachment. Into true adulthood. Into humility and honest reverence for her vast and mysterious inner world.