The Seductive Trap of Ancestral Humor

“Ah come on, I’m just joking”. Yes, I cut you down and exploited your primary vulnerability – but you should still trust me and feel connected to me! This is just how things are, why try to change them? :stares into your soul: I will suck every last drop of energy from you since you […]

It is not meant to be easy.

The embodiment of [self] Knowledge requires an incredible amount of tenacity. It is not meant to be easy. However, don’t read that as “You are not meant to be happy”. Of course, you are meant to be happy. But the journey to a state of true balance requires us to force ourselves to learn what […]

Resolving Internal Stories [Video]

The reality of Truth/Dao is always there available to us. The eternal mystery is very consistent. And human misunderstandings and our path to maturity is also very consistent and predictable because our shadows show up in biological survival patterns. As we complete our internal stories, we can have more access to perceiving the eternal mystery […]

Humans are nasty.

Humans are nasty. You just have to get over that It’s not personal We pee and poo and snot and throw up… We want in, we want out… We dont know what we want. We’re sick then we’re well then we’re sick. We’re hurt and limping, then we’re well. Then have a serious itchy rash. […]

Embracing Relational Death+Rebirth Cycles (for Men)

There are some important things for men to understand about relationship challenges with women. Even when unpleasant, these are often a major opportunity one is not recognizing. Making a repair is only possible if the relationship becomes stronger than ever. Pain is unavoidable. Suffering is not necessary. Regardless of which decisions you make, you’re likely […]

It’s Easier

Here are some interesting things I’ve learned about spirituality… It’s easier to open your third eye than it is to have a deeply connected intimate relationship. It’s easier to attain enlightenment than it is to truly forgive the people who have hurt us. It’s easier to astral project than it is to build a successful […]

Something is Missing

The way our stories are constructed is actually quite brilliant. Our body/mind systems know exactly what is needed. We can feel exactly when “Something is missing”. What’s missing? The End. The End of the story we’ve started. And it probably started a long, long time ago. Our minds might think that the desired end of […]

Our inner Compass

We have to honor our inner compass. Even if we can’t understand the reason for what it tells us. Our rational mind is inherently limited by our history of experiences. It’s tempting to hold onto what we have. To focus on “being grateful” for what we’ve been given. But our soul is ready for something […]

Something must be sacrificed

As we grow to accommodate more power – as we become capable of holding more tension within us – Something must be sacrificed. We don’t receive the gift of maturity without saying goodbye to the old way of holding things. Maturing means being willing to sacrifice anything for that which we truly value. To be […]

There isn’t somewhere to go

There isn’t somewhere to go, besides inside your curiosity. There isn’t something to achieve, besides a lack of ambition. There isn’t a game to win, if you yourself are the game being played. There isn’t a world to save, only your own self which is resistant to the chaos and therefore incorrectly believes it needs […]