Healing vs Enlightenment

There is a big difference between healing and enlightenment. healing is sometimes also known as “enlightenment of the heart”. This is the resolving of trauma, the restoring of our deepest and truest self. This is the arena in which various states of bliss expand and deepen. Enlightenment, on the other hand, also known as Advaita, […]

Most People

Most people are not aware of their motives. Most arguments are fueled by unconscious motives. Most theories are created as weapons to dispel other theories. Most weaponized theories are fueled by unconscious motives. Most unconscious motives are fueled by pain. Most pain is fueled by a lack of being seen and met fully. Most theories […]

Overstuffed

I’ve soaked it all up like a sponge. Sopping wet, overloaded with fertility. I am more saturated than there are words to describe. There’s just so much weight to carry, and it’s not all mine. And so it’s a bit too obvious, it’s time to wring me out. Each pregnant pore is ready to gush […]

MALE DOMINANCE IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO INERTIA

The reason why men are drawn to try to dominate women is that they do not know how to be with (aka lovingly dominate) themselves. Oftentimes, the man faces the problem of inertia. Inert = stationary and unmoving. Lack of energy. It is often easier for a man to be energized as a reaction toward […]

That still silent voice

That still silent voice I’ve been seeking for years Is now busting down my door Stalking my fears “It’s high time for a leadership change” he says “Out with the old, it was deranged” The vicious certainty spewing up forth Never did I expect this from my true north shredding and clawing and damn ready […]

The Fear of Drowning

I’ve said please once or twice, but it was only later that I discovered that thank you would have been more appropriate. The biggest change I have gone through has been to actually get what I want. To realize that all effort is over. Not that I will be motionless, but the motion moves me […]

A Necessity called “Losing”

Children count down when they’re ready to race: “Ready, set, go!” Their interest is expansive. It’s fun to win! And it’s even fun to make a pouty face when you lose! Mass hypnosis tells us that losing is not fun. And that change is hard. Or that a learning opportunity is shameful. But how can […]

The Well

“I know you. You think I don’t know you? I know you”, she said. I’d been waiting and waiting for decades. Winter, summer, winter, summer. It really seemed like it was never going to happen. I’d started to feel like a prostitute just waiting for my payment. I’d given up years ago on having any […]

Home Coming

The coming days Will bring a face We have hardly known. Though foreign it may seem deeply its eyes my gleam it is in fact your own. A version of you so miraculous has long awaited, Dear. When you thought that things were bad it was actually your soul drawing near. The intensity you’ve felt […]

The Truth of my savage efficiency

The Truth of my savage efficiency knows no bounds. And yet, even for aiming with such vigorous precision there is not a loss of care. If one is to be the most efficient in all eternity, let them be the most efficient in the art of compassion. And thus the two lenses shall meet, though […]