Men and women are attracted to each other for different reasons.The way a man grows in a healthy committed relationship is different than the way a woman grows.
The man grows into the woman, while the woman grows into herself.
She is the foundation of reality.
She is the earth and the ground of being.
To whatever degree she felt unloved and abandoned by her father, she has a serious wound that creates chaos in the relationship.
If she is fortunate to connect with a man who understands this, he can help her by penetrating and bringing order and presence to this chaos (Lilith).
The chaos is totally convinced of her unlovability and this wound is designed to repulse less developed men.
The more powerful the woman, the more powerful her wounding, and the more repulsive she knows how to be.
This is intentional, that she can drive away all unqualified men who cannot handle her.
Women who are trained to be obedient are trained to submit to men who are not properly qualified to take care of them.
Red flags are to be taken seriously.
Most men are not educated or properly initiated and will see women as objects.
Women are therefore often under the impression that it is their job to initiate men.
But this is not true.
This is coming from fear.
Their rejection of men is the best thing they can do to drive the man toward proper initiation.
I was rejected by my woman for over 20 years. It was horrible. Excruciating.
When I finally passed her test and appeared to be qualified, I was rejected again.
And again.
Nothing is a better test of my devotion.
No one said love is easy.
I was forced to step up and step into my life in a way I didn’t know was possible.
THANK YOU for rejecting me!
I was driven forward by her rejection.
I knew we were meant to be together.
This sacred combination of my devotion and her rejection created the perfect alchemy wherein we can now have a life together.
It is not by going to therapy, it is not by healing ourselves, it is not by becoming successful.
It is more basic and foundational.
It is awakening to ourselves that we can stand as our own sovereign pillars, together.
It is through the power of choice that we can meet eye to eye, finally.
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Joshua Edjida is a multidimensional artist, experience designer, author, public speaker/comedian, and transformational leadership facilitator. Originally from California, he currently lives in Colorado, and also enjoys traveling in Thailand, Bali, or in Europe.
